She’s firm with her decisions… Sandra Bullock is said to be not coming home if her husband Jesse James will not leave their shared home.

Sandra is currently staying in one of her homes in Hollywood Hills she purchased prior to moving with Jesse James.

“Sandra is such a classy woman,” a source tells Radar Online of the situation. “To have her husband cheating on her and cheating with so many women, it’s just something she doesn’t deserve. She’s always conducted herself with dignity. A lot of people never understood her attraction to James but she was loyal to him. And not only did he cheat but he cheated with these women that just make you shake your head. Not that it matters anyway – the only thing that matters is he cheated.”

An insider told press that an apology is not enough to forget everything that happened.. Jesse James had pursued a lot of women, and there maybe some others that haven’t been public yet.

“No one wants to see Sandra hurting like this. She trusted him. And now her marriage has turned into a nightmare.” the source added.